Tuesday, April 28, 2020
The Recession is Bullhonkey Danielas Story - When I Grow Up
The Recession is Bullhonkey Danielas Story - When I Grow Up Danielas quote is written over her Magic Garden Art print, which you can buy right here. This is part of The Recession is Bullhonkey series, where I share stories of those who have gotten hired and/or started their own businesses (or sometimes both!) since 2008. Daniela Dumitriu was in my March 2014 session of Career Camp (all the way from Romania!), and she blew me away with a recent update of what shes put into motion since we wrapped up just 6 short months ago. I cant wait to share her inspiring story with you! Looking back 10 years ago I thought I was on the right path, becoming spiritual and enlightened. I immersed myself deeply into gratitude, giving to others, letting go of all the judgements, eating vegan and so forth. For the first time in my life, I started to feel loved and have success. My work involved helping others heal emotionally and physically and it felt good to receive their deep appreciation. So I thought I was doing everything right. Until one day, 6 years ago, I just felt that something was completely off. Little by little I was forced by my body to stop working and I did that for a while, but because I didnât know what else to do for a living and I knew I was so good at helping others, I still wanted to pursue that path. And this was the moment when my body said ENOUGH. I crashed with exhaustion and became very ill. I didnât understand what was happening since I was doing everything so right. It took me 6 years to fight my logic mind and give up. It was December 2013, I was bedridden with an autoimmune disease, severe chronic fatigue and feeling almost suicidal because I didnât see the point of living anymore. Everybody around me (doctors, alternative healers, mentors, friends, family) advised me to start medical treatments, pursue a religious path and basically start doing things like everybody else (even if I donât like it) because there is no other way. I was lying in my bed and all of the sudden I became aware that if I am going to die, I would feel a terrible regret of not allowing myself to live fully, for my own joy. And I started to realize in that moment how everything I was doing to heal myself actually exhausted me even more. I didnât like going to doctors, I didnât like the Chinese master who treated me, I didnât like my friends, didnât like my family, my life, I didnât like anything. I felt empty and hopeless. I just wanted to be happy. I didnât know what would make me feel this way and for a while this made me feel terribly depressed. So because I couldnât say what made me happy, I focused on what didnât. I started by trimming everything that felt toxic to me. I was afraid that this would mean that I would feel even more empty and even more alone. But I could also see how everything I chose to do for my own healing was wrong. So I decided to make a huge step and just jump into the unknown. The second day, I canceled all my future appointments with doctors , healers and coaches, just because it felt draining to be with them. By making space for new things into my life, I started to recover miraculously and to feel what was really joyful for me. It took me several months to go from being unable to walk, eat, sleep and connect with others, to go out and have fun attending to drum circles, improv workshops and other playful activities. Another thing that happened miraculously was that by giving up everything I knew about energy healing and the ways I thought would help me recover, I received more than I imagined: all of a sudden I realized that by going within and feeling my feelings deeply I can release them easily (which never happened to me before even when I worked with top mentors and energy healers around the globe) and receive insightful messages from them. This process brought a huge awareness coming from within and not form outside and with it, extraordinary doors started to open for me. I suddenly became highly creative, feeling this fantastic urge coming from inside, pushing me to paint and draw, things I was never attracted to before. Every month I gained more clarity about what felt nourishing for me and what didnât. And every time, my body kept forcing me to choose what felt right for me, with no regrets and without feeling guilty. I started to realize that healing really comes from within and it involves being true to yourself, no matter what everybody else says. So if I would have to say what were the gifts of this experience I would say this : being spiritual doesnât mean you have to do spiritual rituals, yoga, Tai chi, meditation, go to church, eating vegan or pray. I am not saying that these things are not good or helpful, because they really are if you are resonating with them. I am saying that for some people, like me, spirituality can take a different approach. To me, being spiritual rather means accepting yourself fully, loving your unique weird quirky self like your life depends on it, doing what you really love, being with people who feel nourishing to you and detaching from anything that doesnât resonate with you, not from a place of anger or hate, but from a place of I choose what feels good to me, and I let you choose what feels good to you tooâ. Being spiritual for me means to listen to my heart and follow my spiritâs joy which is mainly about playing, having lots of fun and be silly, just because this feels nourishing to me. trying to please others or feel responsible for their feelings is not helping them (or you for that matter). When we do this, we are not allowing them to learn their own lessons and feel their own feelings. We stop them from connecting with their hearts and inner wisdom, and when we choose to detach form people who want us to feel responsible for them because they donât want to evolve, we are helping ourselves to maintain the brighter light within. I had to learn the hard way how to say no to people who were negatively attached to me and wanted me to join their pain. One has to always choose what makes her happy no matter what because this is the way she can really honor her spirit and by doing this continuously, she shifts her environment and life starts presenting new wonderful opportunities. surrendering to what your body feels is the key to true recovery and joy. Your body knows what feels right for you and she will let you know through sensations and feelings what is best for you (or not). Mary Oliver says it best: You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.â 10 years ago I used to think that feeling grateful for anything (even if I didnât like it) and non judgmental is a sure path toward spirituality and health. Today I know that my body felt ill, my heart was empty and I couldnât point what was joyful to me anymore because I didnât allow myself to dislike things and people that my body didnât resonate with. The heartâs language is showing us through our likes and dislikes what feels joyful and nourishing and what doesnât. I thought that not giving voice to my dislikes and accepting everything around me would be the most spiritual thing possible, not knowing that this made me swallow things that were not tasty at all. By havi ng clarity each day on what feels good and nourishing to me and what doesnât , by listening to my bodyâs messages and to my heartâs wisdom and intuition, I started to recover naturally, without medical help. And to receive the gifts of creativity, joy and physical energy, that I was so much longing for in the last 6 years So when I started to focus on my joy (which in the beginning meant only to watch comic tv shows and cartoons, until I was able to go out and spend more time in nature and paint) and choose coaches that were funny and had an easy approach, I found myself in a totally different place and it felt better each day. This is how I found Michelle. I was looking for online programs who were able to help me find my joyful life purpose because I knew that this is going to help me heal faster and I didnât want to go back to my old way of working as a energy healer, life coach and therapist by listening to other peoples problems and feeling drained. I was already aware of some things , but she helped me confirm once more that everything I felt it was right and joyful for me, it really was going to lead me toward a nourishing career. Today I am still not fully recovered and I know this is a process, but by daily taking the actions I mentioned briefly above, I know I am moving closer and closer to live the life I am dreaming of. Beginning this summer I felt inspired to create my own website where I share my story, artwork and creative projects, and a few months ago I decided to create an English version of it, which actually helped me become more connected with other wonderful creative people from all over the world. During Career Camp I wrote two stories for children of all ages inspired by my own joyful healing journey, and one of them became my first free Ebook available for my subscribers. After this first step, the universe just started to present even more opportunities, like opening my art prints online shop on Society 6. It felt joyful to be able to post my inspiring art and see that people are now appreciating me for choosing to pursue what makes me happy. People are now saying to me that they feel inspired by my art and story and this feels amazing. Even writing this article for Michelleâs blog was a lesson of surrendering and trusting that Life knows best what works for me and what doesnât. A few weeks ago I was searching on the internet for a marketing online course that could fit into my creative way of thinking but couldnât find anything resonating with me. I remembered reading a story of a woman who attracted thousands of visitors on her blog in only one day, after writing a blog post for a well known blogger which in return made her blog address famous. And I thought, wow, thatâs an interesting option, although I donât know how is going to happen for me. And then I said to myself, there must be an easier way to attract kindred people by just staying in a wonderful, joyful, playful creative zone. And I felt relaxed, knowing that Life has its own miraculous ways to solve things. And two days later, Michelle invited me to write my story, which you are now reading, for her amazing Recession is Bullhonkey series full of stories of extraordinary women! I felt honored and grateful knowing that the Universe showed up when I let go once more and my story will be known by people who may be truly resonating with me. So these days I am practicing how to surrender what doesnât belong to me anymore and stay connected to what does, trusting that Life brings abundance when I connect with my joy. It is never easy but if I am willing to let go, something beautiful always happens. So I want to end my story with a note that I feel is very important for you to know: please donât imagine that doing these things is very easy to me. Donât imagine that I donât fight being resistant before I surrender. I have my enlightened moments when I do, but mostly, its always about maintaining a sharp focus on what is truly important for me in that particular moment and then allowing it to unfold as it wants to by leaving behind the shouldsâ and the opinions of others. It is not at all easy, but its fun to watch what happens when you do surrender. And if I would have to add a final thing to what I shared here it would be this: donât judge yourself for being where you are. Donât listen to other peoples stories about who you are supposed to be and what is wrong with you. You are fine, you are more than perfect and you just need to focus on what is right about you. And trust Life, which always has wonderful gifts to offer you, when you surrender everything you know to her. After all, look at me: I never painted in my life until now and I am 50. I never knew this creative side of me. And my message is this: is never too late to start pursuing your happiness which could actually become your very joyful career. Daniela Dumitriu is a self taught artist with a background in life coaching, Feng Shui consultancy and energy healing, with an affinity for playful healing arts. She started to recover miraculously from having severe Chronic Fatigue and depression by choosing to follow her joy. She now loves to inspire others as well to follow their hearts and trust Life. She is currently working on her new ecourse to help others realize that HEALING CAN BE FUN (you can download her free ebook with the same name as part of her upcoming course here). You can connect with her via Facebook and she invites you to take a look at her inspirational art prints online shop here.
Sunday, April 19, 2020
Summary For a Resume - Why You Should Write One
Summary For a Resume - Why You Should Write OneIf you have been laid off from your job and are in the market for a new job, then you may want to consider writing a summary for a resume. A resume is an important part of your professional life and will help you find a new job. It is usually not necessary to do a whole resume, but if you need to do one, this article will help you.As with any job application you should spend some time on your resume before you submit it. The reason for this is that it can look different if you are the first job seeker in the field. It is best to have at least a few samples to make the difference. In addition, some employers who are looking for new employees have a strict requirement for resumes that contain a brief description of the job responsibilities and length of employment.In addition to your resume, you can also include information about your skills and experience that relate to the job opening. These would include your previous work experience an d certifications that would be required. If the position requires a candidate to have formal education, include the schools and universities attended. Some positions also require a candidate to hold a certain license or a certificate, like an accounting degree.Writing a summary for a resume is a simple process. Before you start writing your summary, figure out what the job opening is for. Then write down the position and title of the job that you think fits you. Add in your qualifications, such as your education qualifications. Then list your skills and experience that relate to the job and the position.Writing a summary for a resume does not have to be difficult. Just make sure that you have enough information to show why you are the right person for the job. Having a brief resume will allow you to start your job search while having a summary for a resume will also let you have more time to look for another job. This is especially important if you are laid off from your job and not sure how you will find a new job.The summary is usually not sent out to all the job searchers. They are only sent to candidates that have applied for the position. If you are sent a summary for a resume, you will have to fill out the details of your resume and include your personal information and contact information.If you are in the market for a new job and you are not sure whether you are good enough to fill the position, then writing a summary for a resume can help you find the right job for you. It will also give you the extra time to look for another job while building your resume. It is just an easy way to tell the world about yourself and your skills and experience.
Tuesday, April 14, 2020
The Fundamentals of Writing a Major Minor in Education Section of a Resume Revealed
The Fundamentals of Writing a Major Minor in Education Section of a Resume Revealed What Does Writing a Major Minor in Education Section of a Resume Mean? Students who will really make a difference in the realm of tomorrow. As a result of that fact it's vital that you create a near perfect resume. An interesting minor may also be a great approach to earn a student stick out in the work market or when applying to graduate school. If you own a duplicate of your schedule, you will be good if something weird happens to your schedule. The Do's and Don'ts of Writing a Major Minor in Education Section of a Resume Employment growth will change by region. Below is a good example of the way to place a minor on your resume. You can set your education section before or following your experience section. The education section isn't an exception. What Writing a Major Minor in Education Section of a Resume Is - and What it Is Not Candidates who haven't attended any greater education pro gram should provide their high school info. It is one of a few key sections employers look for on resumes. Students may also make their very own individualized major. In the United States, they are usually not required to choose their major discipline when first enrolling as an undergraduate. What About Writing a Major Minor in Education Section of a Resume? A minor is a less intensive plan of study that's secondary to the significant designation. At the most fundamental level, a very clear education section demonstrates that you've got an excellent background and the simple knowledge to be successful. Another additional bit you're able to enhance your education section is any certificates you might have. Writing a resume isn't the exact same as writing an essay. With the use of such templates, it can help you save you your time necessary for together with completely different sections to your CV, along with the key points in the corresponding sections, picking out the app ropriate format, and so on. Adding your majors and minors on your resume may look to be a simple task, but having proper formatting to guarantee that it looks both skilled and easy on the eyes can be challenging. There are plenty of resume templates that are freely accessible on-line. As stated earlier, you are able to simply copy and paste the examples of present resumes, but be certain you do well, and check with the hints you've shared.
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